
Our son Norberto Jr
was a healthy 19 year old young man; an ambitious college student
majoring in computer technology. During his spare time he enjoyed
golfing, fishing, playing video games, cooking and especially loved
spending and enjoying time with his family.
Norberto
developed continued back pain for about a month and then
subsequently became paralyzed from chest down. He underwent
emergency surgery followed by inpatient rehabilitation for three
weeks. The pathology report and further work ups revealed a
diagnosis of primary PNET (Ewing Sarcoma) of the thoracic
spine. This cancer is extremely rare and carries a very poor
prognosis.

He died suddenly two and a half months after his initial
diagnosis from a massive pulmonary emboli.
While in acute
hospital stay and rehabilitation, Norberto Jr required total care
and he learned how to use a walker and wheelchair. He remained
incompletely paraplegic. He also required a significant amount of
pain management. His parents were at his bedside 24/7 assisting in
his care.
After three weeks of rehabilitation and finally
coming back home, Norberto Jr developed recurrent severe back pain
with radiation to his ribs. An emergency thoracic spine MRI revealed
recurrences of the tumor which had started to compress the spinal
cord and spread to the ribs.
Immediately Norberto Jr was taken to MD Anderson in
Houston, Texas due the rarity of the cancer. Subsequently, he was
admitted and started on high doses of steroids, radiation and
chemotherapy. Extensive work ups revealed no more metastasis in
other areas of the body. While at MD Anderson Norberto Jr received
about 28 doses of radiation and three cycles of chemotherapy
combined, both inpatient and outpatient before he passed away.
In that short time Norberto Jr developed multiple
complications, including numerous episodes of fever, nausea and
vomiting, diarrhea and uncontrolled pain. There were many trips to
the emergency room. He developed severe radiation esophagitis and
required a peg tube for nutrition. Recurrent hospitalization with
multiple intravenous antibiotics. The skin on his back was
completely burnt from the radiation. Throughout this ordeal he
remained very debilitated and wheelchair bound. He required total
care and his mother provided 24/7 assistive care.
As a
physician myself I had to run my medical practice, take care of our
other children and manage Norberto's medical care. I would fly to
Houston on a regular basis. His mother was always at his bedside
providing total care and managing his medical care. Our daughter
also moved in with her mom to help take care of our youngest teenage
son.
Norberto had multiple medications, a central venous
catheter and a peg tube. Managing his pain was a constant challenge.
Providing total care to a paraplegic young man who is six feet tall
and weighing about 260 lbs was very strenuous. Norberto had three
battles: cancer, debilitation and complications. Norberto required
multiple medications, medical supplies and accessories such as
wheelchair, walker, shower chair and bed cushions. Multiple doctor
visits, lab and x-rays. As well as occupational and physical therapy
sessions. We obtained a temporary apartment in Houston.
Transportation was a challenge on a daily basis. The financial
burden was huge.

Our family
knows all about how difficult the financial and time commitment
requirements are that are inevitable for both the families and
their child with cancer. We just want to do our part to help by
alleviating part of that burden for families who find themselves in
the same situation. We are doing this in memory of and in honor of
our beloved son Norberto Vazquez Jr.